15 Free Summer Activities to Do in 15 Minutes or Less

It’s almost the end of June! Does it feel like summer is slipping away and you’re not slowing down enough to enjoy it?

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Me too. But it’s important to keep in mind that we don’t need to have hours on end of free time in order to slow down and savor the moments.

So to help us out, I’ve compiled a list of 15 simple activities we can do with our kids right outside our door even if we only have 15 minutes or less.

    1. Lay on the grass with your eyes closed and breathe deeply to relax.
    2. Find shapes in the clouds.
    3. Eat your meal or a  snack outside instead of inside.
    4. Kick a ball or throw a Frisbee.
    5. Draw with sidewalk chalk.
    6. Jump rope.
    7. Read a picture book or a chapter from a longer book in fun voices.
    8. Run through the water spray of a hose.
    9. Notice lightening bugs in trees and down the street.
    10. Catch lightening bugs in your yard and put them in a jar.
    11. Admire the stars.
    12. Listen to the nature sounds around you.
    13. Ride bikes, skateboard, or walk around the block.
    14. Find nature items (sticks, leaves, feathers, acorns, etc.) that you can put in a clear jar inside for “decoration.”
    15. Eat the nectar from a honeysuckle. (Go here if you need instructions for finding and eating honeysuckle.)

What about you? What would you add to this list?

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Extending Grace

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about grace, and about how the desire for grace is often one-sided.

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For example, how many times have we wronged someone else and made excuses for our behavior, then turned right around and uttered something like, “But that person doesn’t deserve my grace?”

When we speak shortly to someone or show up late to an appointment, we tend to justify our own behavior and we want the other person to recognize that we’re stressed out and busy. But if someone else is snappy with us? Sadly, many of us (myself included) often don’t recognize the stress in their lives and we instead become offended by the person’s outward behavior.

Yes, we should all try to do our best, and no it is not okay for anyone to treat others poorly, but the truth is that all of us fail at times.

And when we mess up, we usually want people to extend grace towards us, but too many times we don’t want to offer that same grace to others.

That is a dangerous place to be.

“And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. But if you do not forgive, neither will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses.”Matthew 11:25-26 (emphasis mine)

Grace means unmerited favor. By definition, grace isn’t something that’s earned. Grace is a beautiful gift that’s offered to the undeserving.

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I want to encourage you to extend grace – offer the same grace to others that you’d want them to offer to you.

And when we’re the ones who mess up? Instead of making excuses and justifying our behavior, let’s realize that we’ve messed up, then give ourselves the grace that we want others to extend to us. Yes, we need to repent for wrongdoings, and seek forgiveness, but we shouldn’t stay in that guilty place.

Realize there is hope for change. We can be refined.

“For You, O God, have tested us; You have refined us as silver is refined.” Psalm 66:10

I hope you will take a minute to listen to this song (e-mail subscribers, you may need to click over to the blog to see the video). While we do need to allow ourselves time to heal, let’s not waste unneeded time and energy focusing on worldly hurts, as we instead focus on the big picture and the Ultimate Goal.

P.S. If you’re struggling with a particularly difficult person or situation, I recommend reading this article for further advice and encouragement.

Five Minute Goal

I recently made a goal to write every day, and I’ve already completely missed five days. A few of the other days I just grabbed my journal and spent a few minutes scribbling down whatever was on my mind.

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My favorite place to write.

A couple of years ago, I would have been upset with myself and gotten discouraged for missing days, and for writing imperfectly on other days.

I’m learning to give myself grace though and to celebrate and honor my own successes. I’ve written more than I would have without a goal. I’m learning to make writing a habit. I’m enjoying myself. With practice, it’s getting easier to write about what really matters.

It’s okay that I’m not perfectly meeting my goal. It’s alright that my handwriting doesn’t always look fantastic or that my grammar isn’t always correct. I’m doing my best, and it’s okay when my best isn’t perfect.

You know what? It’s okay that your best isn’t perfect either. Whatever thing in your life that you’re working on – did you do better at it last week than you did two weeks ago? If so, that’s awesome! Give yourself a pat on the back and keep working in that direction.

If you haven’t worked on your goal at all, choose to give yourself grace, but don’t stay in the place of not moving forward. Learn from your experience. Realize where you can improve and move on. Try to do a little better this week than you did last week.

If you want to improve at something (and I hope that all of us do!) start by carving out five minutes each day.

Whatever your goal is, just do it, and keep it simple. Want to eat healthier? Choose to eat an orange instead of a candy bar twice each day. If you want to exercise, do 25 crunches and 5 push-ups as soon as you wake up. If you want to write more, grab a journal and write a paragraph. If you want to keep a cleaner house, unload the dishwasher or put away a basket of laundry.

Maybe your goal isn’t to do more, but to do less. Go outside and smell a flower. Sit in silence for a few minutes. Cross something off your to-do list that doesn’t really need done. Think about how you can say no to good things so that you can say yes to the best.

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Flowers I admired during a recent leisurely walk.

Give yourself five minutes a day to do something that matters to you. Trust me, you’ll be glad you did.

That five minutes will make a difference!

Don’t think you have five minutes a day? Did you just make time to read this article? Did you check Facebook or your e-mail this morning? Then you have five minutes. And so do I.

Let’s keep moving forward.

Sacrificial Giving

I’ve been researching and praying for quite awhile to try to figure out how I can serve others, by myself as well as with my family. I know that we can’t (and shouldn’t) do everything, but we can do something.

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And I truly love to serve others with my time and resources – when it’s out of my abundance. When I have extra “stuff” it’s so easy and joyful to give to those who could benefit from our old things!

Now that we’ve decluttered our home,  however, and gotten rid of so much excess, I’m finding that when I give, it’s more of myself than my abundance. And that’s the way we should give – sacrificially.

“Then [Jesus] said to them all, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me.” Luke 9:23

Here’s something I somehow missed about sacrificial giving though – sometimes it hurts. It’s hard. It takes time. It causes growing pains. I guess that’s all part of the “sacrifice” in “sacrificial giving.”

But there’s a much bigger sacrifice than one I’ve ever made.

Today I think of all those who have lived their lives, and then lost their lives, in service to our country. Those service men and women served us even though we’re mere strangers to them.

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WWII Memorial

They didn’t just serve when it was convenient for them. They served when they were hungry, fatigued, missing their loved ones, and longing for a little time off. Even when they didn’t feel like it, they served anyways.

Sometimes we’re grateful, but many of us (including me) tend to forget the sacrifice of others and we see holidays like today as an excuse to have a day off work and school so we can enjoy grilled hamburgers and cold soda with our friends.

Go ahead and enjoy your burger, but I also want to encourage you to remember. Remember why you have the freedoms you have. Think of those who lost their lives for your freedom, and their family members, even if you don’t know those people personally.

Right now, I’m struggling to find joy in the sacrifice of sacrificial giving.  But I can learn. I can look to others as an example. I know that the more I give, the more joyful it can become, with God’s help.

And I can remember He who paid the ultimate sacrifice, not just for a country or a time period, but for all mankind – a sacrifice that transcends time.

Thank you Lord, for sending your Son to earth to show the ultimate sacrificial example in life and in death. Thank you for your patience with me as I learn to find joy in the sacrifice. In Jesus name, Amen.

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Each star represents 100 American service personnel who died or remained missing from WWII.

Buried Talent

MothersDay2013Many people who know me in real life know that I am a bit of a reserved person.

I’m working on becoming more open with others and sharing part of my heart on my blog is one way I’m doing that.

So, after much deliberation, I decided to try to boost my blog readership by offering a free eBook to subscribers and I excitedly undertook my new project. Just as I’d hoped, it worked! My readership grew significantly in a very short amount of time.

So what did I do? I hit the ground running, right? I took off with my writing and kept posting articles that others could read and share with their friends, and my subscriber list kept growing and growing, right?

Unfortunately, no.

I wrote nothing.

I struggled to figure out why I kept making excuses not to write, and believe me, I had really great ones (decluttering my entire house and the passing of my grandma were biggies).

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And while those things were real reasons not to spend hours a day writing, when I honestly assessed myself I knew they weren’t the true cause for my lack of writing, so I needed to dig a little deeper.

Upon further self-examination, I finally admitted the deeper reason I wasn’t writing boiled down to one main thing: fear. (I’ve written a little bit about my fear issues here and here).

I was so afraid of writing the wrong thing and scaring my readers off that I wrote nothing.

Now, I understand the irony of this. If I write the wrong things and everyone leaves, then I’m probably not reaching anyone. If I don’t write anything at all, then I’m definitely not reaching anyone.

I also get that if I don’t write, then I’m burying my talent. And while talent-burying is a safe and comfortable way to live, it’s not what I truly want to do.

This is kind-of like the buried talents we read about in Matthew 25:14-30.

Each person in this parable was given a different amount of money (referred to as talents). The first two servants used their talents to earn more talents. But the third servant, being afraid to lose the one talent he’d been given, buried his money to keep it safe.

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When it came time to report to their master, the first two servants were praised. Here’s the exchange between the third servant and his master:

Then he who had received the one talent came and said, ‘Lord… I was afraid, and went and hid your talent in the ground. Look, there you have what is yours.’

But his lord answered and said to him, ‘You wicked and lazy servant… you ought to have deposited my money with the bankers, and at my coming I would have received back my own with interest. (Matthew 25:24-27, emphasis mine)

That servant didn’t lose his talent, he simply tucked it away for safe keeping. And he was condemned for it.

The parable could be about me. Here I am blessed tremendously with a jump in subscribers, so what do I do? I hide. I bury my talent and think of every reason imaginable not to use it. But really, I am just scared. Scared of rejection, and ridicule, and losing my readership, and saying the wrong thing in the wrong way, and, and, and…

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I am this one of little faith:

But when he saw that the wind was boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink he cried out, saying, “Lord, save me!”And immediately Jesus stretched out His hand and caught him, and said to him, “O you of little faith, why did you doubt?” (Matthew 14:30-31)

Time and time again, God has proven His faithfulness and time and time again, I doubt.

When will I learn?

But I want to learn. I’m determined.

So, I’m going to keep writing. I’m going to write when I want to and write when I don’t. I’m making a goal to carve writing time into each day, whether it’s five minutes or two hours, in a notebook or on my computer. And I’m making a commitment to write about things that matter. I’m determined to keep writing in spite of my fears, until I conquer my fears.

And while I want to use my talent as well as I can, I also want to make sure that I’m not neglecting my family in the process.

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However, if a season comes where I need to set aside writing, I hope I can choose, excuse-free, to do that with patience as I wait on the Lord.

I want to encourage you to use your own talent for good. Whether your gift is writing, sewing, baking, cleaning, teaching, or something else, please don’t bury your talent like I’ve buried mine.

My hope is that we will all use our talents well so one day we can have a conversation like this with the Lord:

He also who had received two talents came and said, ‘Lord, you delivered to me two talents; look, I have gained two more talents besides them.’

His lord said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant; you have been faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.(Matthew 25:22-23, emphasis mine)

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Imperfect Beauty

When I look in my backyard right now, I see grass in desperate need of mowing.

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My children, however, see wildflowers waiting to be picked.

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Don’t we do that with ourselves, as well as our things? Too often, we focus in on the imperfections.

The thing is, beauty is always there, around us, and within us – we just need to choose to see it.

I want to encourage you to watch this video. It is so powerful. You may look into the mirror and see what you think are flaws, but so many others look at you and see the flowers.

“I will praise You [Lord], for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, And that my soul knows very well.” Proverbs 139:14

Just A Few More Minutes

Shortly before Christmas, I wrote an article about time, and how we spend it. In that post, I somberly mentioned that my grandfather had just passed away.

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Only three and a half short months after I wrote that article, my grandmother followed my grandfather to Paradise. She was 83 years old, but she wasn’t sick. She passed quickly and somewhat unexpectedly.

Death has a way of causing me to reflect on life.

When my grandparents were still alive on earth, I called them a few times a month and I visited them when I was in town, but if I could, I’d go back and do both of those things more often and for a little while longer.

I’d shut my door and open my ears when we were on the phone together. I’d stay in town an extra day to sit with them on their couch, just connecting and sharing life. If I could go back, I would linger more often.

My grandparents focused on faith and family because they knew what really mattered. They lived the most beautiful love story I’ve ever seen. They were married for over 65 years, and were reunited in Paradise on the month of their 66th wedding anniversary.

Oh, how I miss my grandparents. I wish I could sit down in their kitchen again and enjoy a slice of pie with them.

I wish I could call my grandmother on the phone again and tell her about my kids, or listen to her talk about when her own children were young. But I can’t because she’s gone. She’s reached her reward, and I won’t be able to have another conversation with her until I reach mine.

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I want to encourage you to linger.

The sporting events, the television shows, the social media, the rush, rush, rush… one day those things will all be gone. One day, those things won’t matter anymore, but the people still will.

Please, choose to spend your time on that which matters most.

It’s going to happen…

I tend to get a little nervous when I’m away from my children. Each time I leave them, I wonder what if something happens?

Then one day it hit me that something will happen – Lord willing, my children will grow up.

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And, yes, that’s what I want, but it’s coming sooner and faster than I can even fathom right now. In the midst of spilled milk, tantrums, bad dreams, and poor attitudes, my children are on their way to adult-hood.

I see it when they choose sharing over selfishness, I witness their budding maturity when they master a new task, and I can tell they’re also growing physically when yet another pair of outgrown jeans gets placed in our give-away pile.

In the middle of these crazy, whirlwind days, my children are growing up and learning how to navigate life.

The fun stuff, the messy-ness, the chocolate smiles, the million questions a day, bike-riding scrapes, pudgy-fingered hugs – it’s all part of their childhood and I want to be fully present and to stay connected so that I can notice and absorb as much as possible.

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I can choose to be there, intentionally fighting to keep our schedule and routine under control, or I can choose, by default, to blink in 15 years and wonder when and how my children became adults.

Time away from my kids is okay and even good on occasion, but I need to make sure that extra time away is the exception, not the rule. My children are only young once and I don’t get a redo - I don’t want to miss this time with them.

Regardless of how we spend today, our children will keep on growing up.

I hope you’ll join me as I forgive myself for wasted time and learn to say yes to the best more often.